The flame has gone...what next?

My view on adultery is that if you are unhappy with the partner you are currently with then why not finish it? I simply don’t see any reason of keeping a relationship going just for the sake of what other may think. I understand that everyone has needs and it’s only human to look elsewhere.

When you first start a relationship its all new and exciting, one could refer to it as a flame. At the start of the relationship this flame is as strong as can be however, should one get bored after a few months they go astray thus the flame goes out.

Although, I also understand that people make mistakes in the heat of the moment. Again, it’s only human to make mistakes….a little mistake like a kiss or a one night stand….I would agree with keeping it in the bag but a full blown relationship I’d tell her. There isn’t anything wrong with a bit of fun but the fact is that people get hurt!

http://www.ivillage.co.uk/relationships/couple/cheat/articles/0,,598861_158061,00.html

I found that link above and it's about why men cheat.....have a read if your interested :-). One can't just blame cheating on men although women seem to think so?